Flying with a baby for the first time can be a nerve-wracking experience for any parent. I know I was terrified the first time I took my son on an airplane. But there are so many things you can do to prepare to make the experience as smooth as possible. So whether you are just taking a quick trip or traveling internationally for the first time, today I want to share with you all my best tips to make flying with a baby as easy as possible.
Last fall, my husband’s side of the family decided to go on a once in a lifetime trip to Japan. This was a trip we had planned years ago but had been derailed but everyone’s favorite pandemic and lockdown. Finally when life had really opened back up (more so in our destination than back here in the States) we decided we had to get back to the trip we had all been dying to take.
There was one slight problem, we had our first baby during that break so now we would be bringing our son with us on this trip (he was almost 14 months at the time of departure). I would be lying if I said I wasn’t terrified out of my mind to bringing a baby with us to a foreign country. Prior to that he had only been on a few flights to visit my parents about 2 hours away. International travel is a whole different ball game!
While there were definitely some bumps in the road, I learned a lot of do’s and do not’s that I hope can help you have an amazing time on your trip.
If you are preparing for airplane travel with an infant, here are my 19 best tips for flying with a baby. I will go over everything from what to pack, what gadgets are actually worth purchasing, and what to bring to the airport to make your life easier.
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Tips for Flying with a Baby
To make it a little simpler, I broke up this post into three sections (before you travel, at the airport, and on the airplane). Tips for both domestic and international travel with a baby are mixed together as well as a few of my tips for what I would do differently next time.
Before You Travel with a Baby
1. Make sure you have the correct ticket for a baby
On most airlines, children under 2 years old can fly free as a lap infant. You still have to have a ticket for them even if they aren’t taking up a seat on the plane. Make sure you check with your specific airline so you have the correct documentation for flying with a baby.
When flying domestically we did not need any additional documentation for him, however for our international flight we needed a passport and birth certificate for my son. All airlines have different rules so check in advance to make sure you have everything you need.
Also, when flying with your baby, they likely will be attached to one parent’s ticket so make sure it is that parent who carries the baby through TSA and on to the plane to avoid any issues if your party get separated.
2. Pack yourself a small diaper changing kit
Changing a diaper anywhere in public can be a hassle, but trying to change in the small space on a airplane can be more like an acrobatic act. Pack yourself a small kit that you can reach into your diaper bag quickly pull out in a pinch to make changes a breeze.
I like to put two diapers, a small travel pack of wipes, an emergency onesie, and a changing pad in mine. You can either put these in a Ziploc bag, a small travel bag, or use a changing pad that snaps or zips together to hold all the other items.
And then when you are at a layover or your destination, make sure to replenish your kit so it is ready for the next leg or the travel home.
3. Use your Diaper Bag as your personal item to keep your hands free
Whether or not you typically carry around a diaper bag, you will want to make sure you have one fully stocked for your trip and that it is a backpack style for ease of travel. I personally love this one but I used this inexpensive backpack diaper bag many times while traveling and it worked great.
Clean out that bag before the trip and make sure to only pack the essentials, and plenty of them! You want your bag to be as organized as you can so you can quickly grab what you need.
4. Make a detailed packing list
What you put on this list is going to depend on your travel destination, but plan far in advance with a packing list so you aren’t scrambling at the last minute. Especially if this is your first time flying with a baby, you will want to prepare at least 4 or 5 days before your departure, so you don’t forget anything.
Having a few days to mull over your packing list makes it so you and your spouse can add items to the list as things come up. Something as simple as putting your baby down for their nap can trigger an item you forgot to add to the list.
5. Pack extra of EVERYTHING in your diaper bag or carry on
Depending on how many bags you are planning on bringing, make sure to pack extra essentials in a bag that is carried on to the plane with you. This means extra clothes, diapers, wipes, swimsuit (if needed at your destination), medications, binkies, and any other essentials items that you literally could not survive the trip without.
While airlines are great at getting your bags to your destination most of the time, unfortunately things happen. Whether it be a delayed flight or a mishap with baggage, there is a chance that your checked bags don’t make it to your destination at the same time you do.
Always be prepared and have the essentials of what you need in a carry on that does not leave your person. (This means do not volunteer as tribute if they offer to check your carry on for free unless you do not have a layover!) The last thing you want to do is get to your final destination and have to replace all your essential baby items at the nearest Walmart.
This goes for mom and dad too! Make sure you at least have a change of clothes, underwear, and some basic toiletries to get you through just in case a lost bag happens.
6. Organize your diaper bag using Ziploc bags
It is going to be difficult to go through your diaper bag looking for that one essential item while sitting on the plane. Make it easier on yourself by organizing your items in Ziploc bags with everything labeled. Personally I use three; one for my diaper changing kit, one for snacks, and one for any toys. That way I can pull out the category that I need and easily put it back in the bag one-handed without making my diaper bag a mess.
7. Purchase a seat with a bassinet carrier or buy a toddler bed
This mostly applies to international travel or at least for very long flights, but if you have a baby chances are they will need to sleep during your flight. Depending on their age there are two things you can do to make this a lot easier for you and your spouse!
For babies under 6 months, an airplane bassinet could be a great option for you! Depending on the airline, some seats are set up to have a bassinet attached to the wall in front of the row. These are usually the front seats in a section. You must contact your airline ahead of time to see if they offer this service and if there is a fee associated with it. You could definitely try this with older infants depending on personal preference.
If your baby is older and you are willing to purchase a seat for them, I highly recommend investing in one of these blow up airplane toddler beds. They are set up to span the distance between the seats and are comfortable for a baby or toddler to sleep on the plane. This is what we used for my son, and it was a life saver! See our set up below:
Most airlines allow these beds to be set up after reaching cruising altitude but be sure to call ahead and ask.
At the Airport
8. Gate check your stroller and/or car seat
Yes, this can be inconvenient because you have to lug your car seat and stroller through the airport, but this ensures that this important luggage makes it to your final destination. With the number of times our checked luggage has been delayed or didn’t make it to our destination for a few days, I personally don’t take a chance with something as important as a car seat.
This also gives your stroller and car seat less of a chance of being damaged because it goes straight from your hands at the end of the jetway to the luggage bay below the plane.
9. Use a Stroller/Car Seat bag
I consider myself more of a minimalist when it comes to baby gear, but purchasing a travel bag for both your stroller and car seat is an absolute must in my opinion!
These bags are relatively inexpensive on Amazon and will keep your stroller and/or car seat protected while out of your hands. We learned this the hard way on our trip to Japan.
On our previous trips I thought the bags my husband purchased were more of a hassle and insisted we didn’t take them. (We had so much luggage traveling internationally it honestly seemed like an extra thing to carry in our bags that I didn’t want to deal with.) We had a layover in Seattle before we headed to Japan and somehow on that domestic flight the wheel was broken off our stroller.
It wasn’t until we were wheeling my son through to our next gate that my SIL noticed it was missing. The airline employees were so kind and tried to look for it, but the wheel was never found. So we spent our entire trip in Japan with a three-wheeled stroller. If we had just put the stroller in the travel bag like my husband wanted, we still may have had a broken wheel but at least the wheel could have been located and fixed.
So soap box over, but seriously these bags are so worth the cost in my opinion and fold up really small to make it convenient for travel. I also love that they have straps to attach the stroller or car seat to your back to make travel to through the airport much easier!